I'm single... well.. besides the fact that at this point, I want to be, I don't want anyone but T. now. I'm scared though, I don't want to lose him, but he doesn't make it easy. I just see us drifting apart, because what I really need is a commitment.
But I took this quiz, and it hit the nail on the head!!
Julie, you're single because you don't want to settle
You, more than others, have a fairy tale fantasy of how things should be. Ever since you were a kid, you've probably dreamed of the perfect wedding, coming home to a white picket fence, dog, and 2.2 kids (how does that work, anyway?). When someone asks what you're looking for, you don't skip a beat: You're likely to have a handy checklist that details your perfect partner. Hair and eye color, height, religion, education, career, interests, the list goes on.
While it's great to have standards ? Hey, you shouldn't have to settle, after all ? there's one slight glitch in your master plan: No one has made the grade in real life ? at least not yet. Next time you're out with someone, keep yourself from mentally checking that list, and give love ? and others ? a chance. That special someone who you've written off may be perfect for you after all...
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I can't say I have a checklist for physical qualities though, I find that.. rather appalling, because that isn't what really counts, but they must:
1. Be physically attractive to me
2. Be funny
3. Be intelligent
4. Be compassionate
5. Be sensitive
6. Be honest
7. Be trustworthy
8. Be committed
9. Be motivated
10. Be able to put up with me :)
11. Believe in something
12. Believe in themselves
13. Believe in me
14. Be able to love & accept my daughter, as their own
15. Want to have a family
16. Be able to deal with my family and their prejustices, and stupidity
17. Be a little romantic
18. Be loving, caring, sensitive, but a little rough when I want it in bed
19. Be adventurous
20. Have some talent (of some kind)
21. I think I could go on forever, and since I never really thought about this as a list, I'm not sure this list is a GOOD thing.
Sunday, October 24, 2004
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